So, decrowned, like you leveled the back of the bow? I kind of gave up decrowning as a bad job. It's even harder to follow the grain perfectly than when marking out a snake stave from a bigger log. I have ONLY had success doing it on kids' bows. But, I also know it can be done, so.......
The full draw tiller pic has the lower limb bending a lot more than the other, as you noted, but what I noticed was the reflex on both limbs not only flattens out, but bends just as much as the rest of the limb. When I put even gentle reflex in something, unless the whole limb is only slightly reflexed, but the same amount, you can still SEE the reflex there at full draw. Does the make sense? Like, it may flatten out, but you can still see where it WAS even if you can't see it directly. I fear you may have reflexed it, then required the limb to bend enough there to not only flatten out, but to continue to bend to the same arc as the rest of the limb. That may leave that spot bending 1.5 X the same amount as the rest of the limb.
That's my guess, and if it then found some tiny weakness from the decrowning, that's that.
I know getting a nice 2" width is hard on a smaller elm sapling, but I totally just leave that crown. I have made 55 lb bows out of 2.5" across elm saplings, and if you can't get that width, just get a tiny bit more length.