Chamookman, that was my thoughts exactly on the Remington's. I've handled a few of the 870 express models and they feel like junk to me. I will definitely consider the benellis.
Mullet, I'm with you on shooting those 3-1/2's but you know how these younger guys are, doesn't seem to bother them nearly as bad. I looked at a Stoeger at bass pro and it seemed like a pretty solid gun.