i would save the heat treating and reflex for a different project,, on the kids bow a straight stave will work great,, and reduces the chance of over heating or damaging the wood when bending,,, a bow that is reflexed it under alot of pressure when first being strung,, and straight bow is not,, the straight bow is just a little more forgiving to make and not as likely to break if there is some unseen flaw,, rawhide backing would be my first choice if the grain on the back is in question,, but better yet,, a nice straight grain board would give you better odds of success,,
also I have a feeling when you were unstringing the bow may have accidentally put uneven pressure on that part of the bow,,???