Disclaimer!! I don't have a war bow (yet!) to work with, so I'm just guessing here, but I suspect that the heavier your bow is, the wider range of spine might work, but it will still matter.
My gut instinct is that spine variance should fall within a certain percentage of draw weight, but darned if i know where.
For example, a 50# bow might seem OK with a spine variance of about 5#, or about 10% of draw weight. If that relationship stays linear, then a 100 lb bow would work OK with about 10# variance.
but that might all be completely dished by an actual scientific test.
As for measuring spine on shafts that thick, I wouldn't even try to match 'em to a chart anywhere. I'd measure deflection (with a dial gauge or something) on your best arrow, and just try to get others as close as possible. You might need something heavier than a 2# weight to really see any bend.
---Ford---