I feel your angst!
For ages I was very skeptical about this whole lower limb stiffer, positive tiller stuff.
In general the bow is supported a tad below centre and the string pulled a tad above centre.
This imballance puts uneven stresses on the limbs. Experience has shown me that if one limb is going to go weak after a few hundred arrows, you can bet it will be the lower. I now tiller the lower limb a tad stiffer, as per convention.
On ELBs I will sometimes reverse them on the tiller half way through the build if one limb seems naturally stiffer, and make that one the lower limb.
I also take great care on the tiller to support the bow as it will be when held, and pull the string as it will be when drawn. If you tiller a bow supported and drawn from dead centre you can get a nasty shock when you shoot it for real!
Even a bow with long limbs like an ELB is effected by the slight imballance.
Look at the two pics at the bottom of post on my blog.
http://bowyersdiary.blogspot.co.uk/2012/11/caramel-and-cream.htmlDel