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Title: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Dictionary on March 13, 2012, 10:53:27 pm
The sound of cars hissing by all night long outside your window. People watching you in your backyard from their back window. And most of all, the damn dog next door(and throughout the neighborhood), who is rather quiet during the day, going on a rampage barking throughout the entire night until 4 a:m, leaving you with about 2 hours worth of deep sleep. I am not looking forward to tonight.

Those of you who have your closest neighbor 1 mile down the road and such, i envy you.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: osage outlaw on March 13, 2012, 11:57:38 pm
There are positives and negatives anywhere you live.  I live at the dead end of a county road and my closest neighbors are my parents and my sister and her family.  It is peaceful and quiet and no spying neighbors, which is a good thing because I pee in the yard as much as the dogs do  ;D  The bad thing about living here is the drive to work, stores, school, and about everything else.  I drive an hour one way to work  :(   Also the response time in case of an emergency. 
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: criveraville on March 14, 2012, 01:34:37 am
Clint is right. I live in town, but I have gotten used to it.

Cipriano
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Jimbob on March 14, 2012, 01:35:16 am
I also live in the country, I love the peace and quiet!!  I really dont mind driving into town for everything.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: gstoneberg on March 14, 2012, 01:48:57 am
I have lived both ways.  Grew up in the country, moved to a small city to go to tech school, then to a Chicago suburb to work.  After 15 years of that I decided I'd had enough city and moved to rural Nebraska an hour away from work.  Shot deer and turkeys in my yard and could cast for bass off my deck.  After 17 years of that I moved back to the city.  In the end, giving up 2 hours a day for that drive was more than I was willing to give.  We live on a 1 acre lot now, but it's still a development.  I hope the next move will be the last one when I retire though the wife and I haven't talked through where that'll be.  It'll surely be influenced by where the grandchildren are.  I'm hoping it'll be in Texas...in the country.

The good news is that I built bows in all of those circumstances and locations.

George
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: stickthrower on March 14, 2012, 11:03:56 am
I agree completely with you.  I am in town now.  I grew up for awhile on the plains in CO where the nearest neighbor was over a mile away.  I loved that.  Now, I have frickin neighbors who let their dog run wild in the neighborhood and crap in other peoples lawns.  And let their kids run wild too.  Had two neighbors last year almost get into a brawl because one of the kids rode their trike down our driveway and ran into our garage door.  Amazingly, it wasn't me in the near brawl.  But the police came, the whole 9 yards.  Now last night, the same kid was riding down the driveway again!  I think last night it would have been me in the brawl.

And I can't shoot my bow outside unless I am very careful.  I live on a main road.  So the police cars drive past all the time.  I have to stand at the edge of my garage and shoot into the garage.  Only about 10 yards. 

I envy the country livers out there!!!  And I hope to go back to that as soon as possible.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: PEARL DRUMS on March 14, 2012, 11:06:20 am
I hate them too Dictionary. Matter of fact I dont even like small towns. No people, no cars and no nise is bettter for us. Heck our nearest "town" is no less than 45 minutes away. I have hundreds of bows growing within 20 yards of my back deck. 
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: blackhawk on March 14, 2012, 11:22:38 am
"Thank God Im A Country Boy"  ;D  :laugh:
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Eric Krewson on March 14, 2012, 11:34:13 am
I live at the end of a dead end road in the county but have neighbors about 150 yards away, one with 4 or 5 dogs. One of her dogs would bark 15 to 20 thousand times in an evening after the sun goes down, I counted the 3 to5 barks every 2 seconds and did the math. This barking would go on well into the night and resume at 4:30am when the paper man made his rounds.

I did a little research and found that all cites and most counties have a nuisance barking ordinance that they do enforce.

The way it works, you file a complaint with the local animal control officer, he drives out and explains the ordinance with the dog owner. If the dog owner doesn't control the barking you go to the city or county police and have the dog owner charged with disorderly conduct. You and the dog owner go before a judge, if he finds the dog owner is guilty they have to pay a fine of around $300.

Disorderly conduct is defined as intentionally or unintentionally causing a disturbance. In this case the dog owner didn't intend to cause a disturbance by allowing her dog to bark but didn't take steps to stop it.

My dog owner neighbor is an animal lover, you can't reason with these kind of folk. After several years of trying to be nice, offfering suggestions and training advice, I demanded silence from her dogs from 10:30 at night until 7:30 in the morning  or we were going to court. That got her attention and she puts the dogs up at night.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: vinemaplebows on March 14, 2012, 01:04:37 pm
Had the same problem Eric in a couple of places......solution for me was simple. I did not care what time of night it was I would call them, and tell them we might as well both be awake if you won't shut your dog up!! You call them a few times at 2:00 am they generally get the message. They would be wise to never let the dog loose, around me if it was a constant problem.......things disapear all the time. >:D I don't know damn dog must have chased whatever he has been barking at all this time..... 8)

Brian
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Gus on March 14, 2012, 01:31:23 pm
I hear ya Fells...

Grew up between the Beach (Crystal Beach, TX on Bolivar) and the country (zavalla, TX up near Lake Sam Rayburn).
Wound up in Houston for work... Now working on getting the Heck outa this Cesspool.

Houston was fun when I was single and Running and Gunning... Heck I owned this town and the local Blues-Rock/Folk scene.

But now that I have a Family, the Great Egress can't come fast enough.
And Nosy Neighbors and Insane Dogs are TINY irritations compared to the whole.

-gus
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: YosemiteBen on March 14, 2012, 03:35:19 pm
That is why I do not live there! 
I used to live in town when I was in college, but, no more.  As for dogs on the lawn pee in a bottle and dump it at various areas around the perimeter of your territory. or pee in public if it doesn't bother you or get you in trouble.  I used to see bottles on rich peoples yards and discovered that they are vinegar bottles which ahve the same effect.  Ex-lax or nytol in a meat ball. paintball gun, bb gun from the garage(wait til the dog is dumping and put a bb beside their tail) >:D 
Noise ordinances do work well when used. Calls when the dogs is being annoying work well too.  We are countryesque but fall in the pervue of a scenic highway overlay and have been busted for the countryesque appearance of our property and had to deal with the county at that point.  Three dogs, six duck, three chickes(left), one goose, three grandkids and teo teenageers. (gee sounds like a christmas song)  Good luck with those challenges. OOh, OOh almost forgot!  Scoop up the offending dogs shit and get some neighborhood kid(or yourself) out the poo in a paper bag and light it on fire on the door step, just don't set the house on fire! >:D >:D
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Dictionary on March 14, 2012, 05:06:57 pm
They would be wise to never let the dog loose, around me if it was a constant problem.......things disapear all the time. >:D I don't know damn dog must have chased whatever he has been barking at all this time..... 8)

Brian

Haha

Well i'm glad i'm not the only one thinking this.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Gus on March 14, 2012, 05:42:56 pm

Haha

Well i'm glad i'm not the only one thinking this.

OH No... you aren't the only one... but then again I'd never type it out... per say.  >:D

-gus
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: beetlebailey1977 on March 14, 2012, 11:01:43 pm
Icould not take a suburb life.....no way.  Funny thing is I live in the city limits but it sure aint no city around me.  LOL  I have some neighbors in front of me and my mother in law about 300 yards away.  Cant beat the country.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Alpinbogen on March 15, 2012, 01:00:10 am
I thought I had found nirvana when we moved from a busy street in town to a quasi-rural area a while back.  Much more peaceful!  I set up an archery target in the backyard and went hunting out my back door.  My kid was bored to tears in the summer though, with no one to play with, and it seemed difficult to coordinate play dates.  My wife and I sort of missed having people beside us to talk to, too.  When our family grew and we needed more house, the best deal we found was on a fairly quiet street in a development on the edge of town.  This is probably our ideal location at this point in life.  It's crazy convenient with work, schools, and shopping all in a mile radius.  Our neighbors are fantastic and outgoing, and we're all friends and have impromptu get-togethers constantly.  Most important, my kids are surrounded by friends in the neighborhood.  I do miss my backyard archery range and walking out to hunt, but (let's face it) in the scheme of things, that's a small part of life.  I can still be hunting or fishing in as little as 5 minutes from home, so I'm definitely not handcuffed to urban living.  My biggest "problem" so to speak seems to be whenever I'm building bows, kayaks, working on firemaking, or other obscure primitive stuff, everyone walking by stops to chat and I can't get anything done!  :laugh: 
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: HoBow on March 15, 2012, 01:20:51 am
My situation is about like you Alpingogen.  I can be in the middle of cornfields in 5 minutes but live in a neighborhood.  It is convenient, but it would be nice to live further out.  I swore I'd never buy a house in a neighborhood again, but acreage here isn't affordable  :o  Plus it is nice being able to be at the gym/grocery shopping/movie theater etc.  in 10 minutes
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Youngboyer2(billyf) on March 15, 2012, 01:49:25 am
"   My kid was bored to tears in the summer though, with no one to play with,  " -AlpinBogen


Make him a bow and let him run around in the woods with it, he would never get bored ;)
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: crooketarrow on March 15, 2012, 12:12:12 pm
   Never lived anywhere buy the country. Where I could walk out my door and hunt ,fish ,hike just walk out into nature. Would'nt have it any other way for me and my boy's.
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: oldhippy on March 17, 2012, 02:04:52 am
    I live in a development. I found that the best way to get along is just let the neighbors that you are one crazy sob that doesn't play well with others. It's worked well for me for the last 35 years. ;D  I have always told my wife, that I wouldn't live anywhere that I couldn't pee in my back yard. When our nextdoor neighbors moved in, I told the guy that he might see me peeing in the backyard but I wouldn't be blatant about it and if I saw that he had company I would at least go to the bushes. >:D We were good neighbors for many years afterwards.

 Steve
               
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Dane on March 17, 2012, 10:09:47 am
I guess it depends on how and where you grew up. I am from LA, and lived in major cities all my life, minus during my tour overseas in the middle of Nowhere, Bavaria. About 15 years ago, I moved to the most rural county in MA, and live in a city / town with maybe 12,000 people, few sidewalks, few street lights, and surrounded by agriculture. To this day, I miss some aspects of the city. Oddly, the sounds of traffic all night is much more comforting than that quiet you get in the country. The never-ending hum of freeways late at night is a sound I also miss, from where I grew up in a suburb of LA. It is just more normal as a soundtrack to life.

But, I love where I live now. However, everytime I go to Boston or NY City, though, I miss it again. Meeting buddies at 2 AM for pizza, the MBTA (subway) instead of having to own a car, things like that. One of the prime things I dont miss growing up in Studio City is how they would regularly find decapitated corpses in the dumpsters a few miles from where I lived.

Dane
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: mitch on March 17, 2012, 05:09:14 pm
Well I live in a gated comunity with a bunch of holier than thou snobs!!! >:( You know the worst part is not that they are snobs but they are two faced about it, some are ok though. Now my folks are looking at some land 10+ acres on water outside of San Antanio! Cant wait to get out of Midland!!  ;D
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: Dictionary on March 17, 2012, 11:57:48 pm
Well I live in a gated comunity with a bunch of holier than thou snobs!!! >:( You know the worst part is not that they are snobs but they are two faced about it,

I know exactly what you're talking about.


Its 9:30, the dogs are barking again and I'm baking in here without the window open. I would do something about it other than shooting my slingshot in the dark over the fence if i wasn't such a recluse.  :-[   I am curious though, those who live in the country, you have to commute like an hr to and from work each day? Jeez. Hope i can get a job close to home. I've always wanted to commute by bicycle to work. My motorcycle is cool too though
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: SA on March 18, 2012, 12:28:27 am
I live  in town and it is nice to have stores a few minutes away but there are train tracks about 1/2 a mile away and they seem  to let that horn blow all hours of the night , I probably wake up to that at least 2x a night . some people say they get used to all the city sounds but I grew up in the country and moved to the city in the 7th grade , I HATE TRAINS :D
Title: Re: I hate the suburbs
Post by: YosemiteBen on March 18, 2012, 02:27:46 pm
@ Dictionary - the hour commute is not so bad in the summer - I stop and go fishing and swimming and bikini watching.  Winter can be a little more stress ful like today when we had snoe to below 2000'.  We do have folks that commute by Bicycle - it is after all only 30 some miles from my house to work.  Lots of hills and curves though.  Thought I was going to have to put on tire chains today but avoided them again. No chains for me so far this winter. Of course winter arrives just days ahead of calendar spring.