This is such an amazing group of people sometimes. You can truly feel the respect and concern held for one another. @Jordan - Here's hoping for the best possible outcomes for you and yours. These things are NEVER easy. Your answers will not be the same as anyone else's answers. Just strive to do honorably with all parties involved and you'll come out alright!
As for the Trade - I'll echo what was said by others - If it were me, ...I'd want to wait. I had to send a bow late in the last trade I was in. It made me all the more determined to make the best bow I could for my recipient. All-in-all, I think it worked out fine and the world kept turning.
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